Asking Locals What Americans Always Get Wrong in Paris

In this video we take to the streets to ask Parisians and American expats what Americans get wrong about Paris, the French and France. If you are planning a trip and worry about being judged, being unsafe or not speaking French, their answers should put your mind at ease.

What locals told us

• Skip the beret. It is a real tradition from southwest France, but in Paris it mostly marks you as a visitor.
• Most Americans arrive a bit stressed and full of clichés, and relax within a week.
• Safety came up a lot. Everyone we spoke with felt safe, including in non-touristy areas like the 10th and 12th arrondissements. Their advice: keep your eyes up, walk with intention and mind your things.
• Protests are a normal part of life. If one is on your route, change course for the day.
• Nobody cares what you wear, within reason (flip-flops in a fancy restaurant will get noticed). Dress for the weather and for comfort.
• Politics is not a topic people will judge you on. Everyone is welcome.

The one word that changes everything

Several people told us the same thing: French interactions start with politeness. Say bonjour when you walk into a shop or restaurant and things will go well. If you expect a waiter to be rude, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Many Parisians now speak English, especially younger people, and several told us Parisians have warmed up to visitors since COVID and the Olympics.

Their tips for your trip

Do not rush. Walk, take the bus to see the non-touristy side of the city, and pack light because many hotel elevators are tiny. Antoine’s brother Vincent, who runs food tours, sees itineraries with Versailles, the Louvre and Montmartre all in one day; Versailles alone deserves a full day. One expat’s only real skip was the Champs-Élysées: see the Arc de Triomphe, then head back to the center.

For planning, our Paris Guide Bundle covers hotels, restaurants and itineraries by arrondissement, and our Paris hotel guide lists 125 picks by neighborhood. You can also book one of our recommended Paris airport transfers ahead of time.